eliza Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 Is it possible to go down on a guy and for him to orgasm but not actually "go" if you know what I mean.. You see, last night I sucked my boyfriend off for about 40 minutes, varying in speed and pattern etc. He reached a high note a couple of times, he was quite vocal (which he rarely is) and for the last 5 minutes of it his leg was shaking and he was sweating quite a bit. It was SO hot! But I was really looking forward to him coming, but I had to stop cause my cheeks hurt a lot, hehe! He was clutching my hair, and thrusting and I could tell that he really was enjoying it very much. Well done me... I think. He said it felt like orgasaming for ages, and it was better than sex, he said I managed to make him have a really long orgasm but not actually come. I'm confused because I thought a guy had to ejaculate if he orgasmed, and I would like to hear from the guys the truth as to if this is POSSIBLE? Thanks people xxx Link to comment
Dako Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 Some guys swear squirting and orgasms are the same thing. I disagree, and have experienced each without the other. Link to comment
Greenday Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 I dont know its not happened to me. But sounds like a wish that would be great to come true!!! Link to comment
anggrace Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 Hmmm. Interesting. I didn't know this. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 40 minutes of oral - this is one lucky dude and you are one dedicated g/f Sorry that doesn't answer the question. What your saying is that "nothing came out" as in no ejaculate? Hmmm, that is weird. Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 Tantric practices believe that a division between ejaculation and orgasm can be made. Its all a matter of control, he could have been doing it or your varied pace could have. Might be worth future research... Link to comment
applepie Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 Isn't that called "shooting blanks"? Link to comment
blue-eyedspacemonkey Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 I thought shooting blanks was ejaculate but no sperm, or with a low sperm count? Link to comment
applepie Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 I thought shooting blanks was ejaculate but no sperm, or with a low sperm count? Could be. I'm just talking about of my butt. I have no idea if that's possible. Link to comment
Dako Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 I shoot blanks after having my supply lines severed. Totally harmless. May as well be pudding. Link to comment
eliza Posted March 19, 2007 Author Share Posted March 19, 2007 well, it's not a sperm count problem... lol. He does ejaculate... most of the time, just when I give him a blow job that he feels probably more pleasure than from sex yet he DOESN'T ejaculate. That's all. Link to comment
Backstroke03 Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 This is some Far East theory, take it for what it's worth. Generally, common orgasms are mere pulsations of the genitals which occur only in the genital region. (They are referred to as genital or outward orgasms.) For men, such orgasms are short in duration and cannot be repeated once the seminal fluid is gone. Although a woman's experience lasts longer, there is not much benefit to her body if her sexual energy is habitually left unattended only to drain out during menstruation. The loss of Ching Chi can affect anyone's health and sexuality as the depletion of life-force becomes apparent even in one's external appearance. An internal orgasm, which leads to a total body orgasm, occurs throughout the entire body (as well as in the genitals). It can be extended in its duration and repeated for hours. By moving the pulsation of the orgasm up to the higher centers of the body, Ching Chi can be retained and the orgasmic sensation increased tenfold. (This also retains the seminal fluid in men.) If one knows how to maintain orgasms for long periods of time, the Universal and Earthly Forces can be activated and combined into a higher bliss, which is a powerful healing energy. The only reason one should ejaculate or allow the loss of Ching Chi to occur is for the purpose of having children. Unfortunately, people carelessly lose their health in their quest for genital orgasms. Ejaculation causes a brief sensation in which sexual energy is passed out of the body and lost. Women who lose energy are also deprived of true sexual pleasure and satisfaction. Internal orgasms are a healthier and longer lasting approach to sex with no loss of stimulation to the genitals. The sensations actually travel through all of the organs, glands, and nerves, thrilling and revitalizing them with sexual energy. Link to comment
eliza Posted March 20, 2007 Author Share Posted March 20, 2007 Oh yeah! I'm proud of myself Link to comment
Adzy Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 40 minutes of oral is a very loving, dedicated present to him. Regardless of whether he ejaculated or not, he clearly enjoyed it, and thats all that matters. I find that I can ejaculate sometimes without the true feeling of an orgasm.. and other times the feelings can be amazing, but with no ejaculation. Link to comment
lunatic Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 A 40 Minute BJ!!!! OMG Your man is ONE heck of a lucky guy! Dang it! I need to find me a lady like you Eliza! Link to comment
regular joe Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Damn Girl, 40 minutes, you definitely have some dedication in you. Sometimes I hold it back, you know to make the orgasm really intense. However, if you hold back too much, you can get just the opposite effect. (there's a fine line.) Most girls would have given up long before you did. Damn, you must ended up with a case of {Mod Edit} Jaw for your efforts. lol. Link to comment
eliza Posted March 21, 2007 Author Share Posted March 21, 2007 Hehe... it was weird the minutes just flew by... it was light outside when we started then it was dark all of a sudden.. Link to comment
Skylab Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 You see, last night I sucked my boyfriend off for about 40 minutes, varying in speed and pattern etc. After this, what advice? Does anything matter anymore? Link to comment
eliza Posted March 21, 2007 Author Share Posted March 21, 2007 I'm not that bothered about it anymore, I was to begin with because it lasted so long and he never came... I never heard of this hapening before.. but thanks to everyone's replies it's apparently possible, so I can just continue doing this and give a nice clean BJ from now on ta everyone, I guess I'm just now inuldging in the praise I'm getting for giving a 40 min blow job...never quite realised how much that meant to a guy.. way hay. Thanks again! xxx Link to comment
Skylab Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 I'm just now inuldging in the praise I'm getting for giving a 40 min blow job...never quite realised how much that meant to a guy On the scale of 1 to 10, it's 214. Link to comment
fredthebread Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 Yeah something like this has kind of happened to me. A girlfriend going down on me and there were so many peaks a troughs that I had what I can only describe as a near miss orgasm. She brought me to the brink so many times so that I did not cum (as in squirt) but the orgasm sensation slipped through. Some of my friends never cum when getting head, but it does not mean they don't enjoy it. When your that turned on cuming is almost an anticlimax coz it means its all over, so I if his leg is shaking etc. I would not worry about it, good job. I assume you are from the USA, coz the only girl ever to go down on me for that long was from chicago. You would have to do an awful lot for an Irish girl to get her to do that! You guys in the states are lucky {Mod Edit} lol Link to comment
Karhu Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Yes, orgasm and ejaculation are two separate things. have a look at this thread: Link to comment
rocklovinggirl Posted April 2, 2007 Share Posted April 2, 2007 On the scale of 1 to 10, it's 214. It better be... I have given almost an hour blow-job and my neck was hurting SO bad, worse than my jaw. Link to comment
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