InsertNameHere Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 So if anyone had been following, my girlfriend had dumped me 2 months ago because she was scared and our fights were getting out of hand, but yesterday we met up and she told me she had been thinking about things and she wanted to try again. I told her ok, and we had a great night last night and we talked about everything. She would always have these mental breakdowns after we broke up, which I think might be caused by depression, but she refuses to take anything for them. But anyways, this morning she texted me saying she had another one and is scared.. and she just started crying. She says she still wants to be with me, but she needs her freedom. I can't help but feel like she is goign to dump me again, but when I asked her she said she still wants to be with me, she just wants to take it slow. I'm just confused, and scared I'm going to have my heart broken again.. I guess I'm just sort of rambling, but any insight would be appreciated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkpumpkin Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 I would recommend just as she says. Take it slow. Don't expect to much if anything at all. Enjoy her company and enjoy the time you have with her but see if you two can progress past the fear she has because if not she may just fear being alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wotgorilla Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 Absolutely take it slow, be there for her, make sure she's there for you, and most of all be sure you both communicate as often as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InsertNameHere Posted March 19, 2007 Author Share Posted March 19, 2007 Yeah, thats what I figure is best. It's hard though, because of how things used to be, and you just get accustomed to that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cece11 Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 You have to do the best thing for you. I think you should follow your heart, and maybe you should give it one more chance. Everybody deserves a second chance. And after that, just see how it goes. You've always gotta be true to yourself and your heart. I say try it, and if it doesn't work then its not meant to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InsertNameHere Posted March 19, 2007 Author Share Posted March 19, 2007 Maybe I'm just young and crazy and in love, but I feel like this could be the one. I just want things to work out with us, and I told myself if she came back then it would be meant to be. But I know how cliche that is.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BONO Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 Sounds promising. Yet, you must make sure the reasons for the initail breakup no longer apply. B Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heloladies21 Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 I hate to say it, but expect to get dumped again. Seen this exact same situation hundreds of times and they always end up the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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