thegoodgirl04 Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 Hi everyone, It's been a while since I've been on here but since I'm home due to a tooth procedure and I get great advice I thought I would post this. I've been seeing a great guy for about 8 months now, things are going well but there's one thing, he's insecure and I don't know what I can do to make him feel more at ease. Like everyone, I have some guy friends (who are all married or in a relationship) at work and this seems to bother him, if I say that I talked to "greg" about something I can feel the tension in the air. Sometimes (me and my boyfriend live about 30 miles apart) he says things like did "greg' come over this week (I don't see my boyfriend much during the work week) and when I ask why he says things like that and that "greg' or whatever guy I may mention is just a friend and that he has nothing to worry about he says he's just kidding and is just giving me a hard time. I'm not interested in these other guys they are just friends, and I do not flirt with them or do anything questionable to make him feel this way. He also says that guys never want to be friends with girls the only reason they are is to get in their pants and that's what the guys are trying to do who I'm friends with!! I can't believe he says this since he's 32 (I'm 31)! I guess he was hurt in a past relationship but it needs to stop because it's starting to affect our relationship. I have tried to talk about this to him but it goes in one ear and out the other it seems. Anyone have any advice on how I get my boyfriend to understand that I have guy friends too that are just friends and that he has nothing to worry about? Thanks! Link to comment
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