txblues Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 ok, i've been on an emotional rollercoaster of joy and despair the last few weeks. been on two lunch meetings with this girl, who lives far away, as well as hanging out at the club twice. each time at lunch i think i entertain her enough. but she also brings up some of her exes that she dated since the last time i saw her. I'm thinking i'm friend zoned. well at the club though, when alchohol is served, we flirt with each other pretty good. cuddling and holding hands. i danced with her all night; very closely sometimes too. i don't know where she wants this to go. my question is: next time i see her outside of the club environment, how do i keep it fun and interesting and flirtatious? when i first started meeting her, i figure i'll just get to know her and get some experience. now i'm afraid of messing up, becoming a bore to her, not knowing what to say anymore. i have one activity date planned out but its a concert that's about 2 months away. also she's invited me out to a few more lunches/dinners but i turned down partly to beat traffic on my way home partly because i don't know how to act when around someone new that often in a short period of time. Link to comment
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