Daligal83 Posted March 18, 2007 Share Posted March 18, 2007 I was talking to some friends/coworkers and mentioned how my boyfriend and I have never had a fight. If we disagree about something, we just both present our point of views, try to persuade the other, and eventually come to a compromise. If one of us does something the other doesn't like, we just tell them and talk it through. My friends said that every relationship needs to have an all out fight at some point. They were saying that if they met a couple that didn't have a huge fight and they were happy, they'd be very surprised. They also argued that if you have any emotional investment at all, then at some point it will all come out in that fight. Or in other words, if you don't have at least one major argument, then there's no real emotional investment. I don't agree with this, because it's just not our style to fight. They are saying that it's because we're long distance and haven't been around each other enough for that to happen. What are your thoughts? Link to comment
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