Guitar

[deathreaper]

Would playing guitar by the window of the girl you're chasing convince them to go out with you? I know it sounds sappy, but ive gotten to the point where im actually good.

[cantexplain]

What's the history of you asking her out?

 

I like the idea, personally.

[jessijess]

I think that sounds sweet! But if she's turned you down before with valid reasons, you may seem like a stalker.....

[rocio]

this kind of thing only works in movies. you're more likely to spook her out and send her running. wait until you're dating her before pulling stunts like this.

[willow2900]

I think it's sweet! Though I would be wary as others have stated.

Have you spoken to this girl? I mean, I would be very cautious about someone I didn't know, or very casually knew appearing at my window singing.

 

But if it was someone I was beginning to date, or had been dating for a while, it is very, very sweet.

[Daddy Bear]

I agree with hazey_amber, especially after seeing you use the word "chasing" (never mind the username). Nice thought, bad idea.

[deathreaper]

dont worry im not chasing as if in stalking shes actually a friend that i have grown some interest in, we know each other quite well

[cantexplain]

If this is the way you feel like starting the next step, then hey, why not?

 

You've gotten some really good advice about not coming accross as too creepy.

 

I like the idea of asking her out without the guitar, and saving this great idea for down the road.

[musicguy]

being a musician, I think it's a good idea, but as others have stated, if you aren't dating, then it would seem kinda stalkish

[Scout]

It's an awesome idea, but in my opinion, not for this particular girl. I read your other thread about her. You've asked her out more than once already and she keeps turning you down. I know you said recently she's been flirty, but I honestly believe it could just be to keep you around or something. She's had two and a half years to decide if she's going to be interested. It doesn't look like it's going to happen, friend.

 

And you know, it's probably truly her loss. But I am concerned that the longer you keep chasing after this girl, the unhappier you are going to be. Two and a half years is an awfully long time to stay in such an unrewarding situation.

[Tony29UK]

or, you could try talking to her....

[Daddy Bear]

I have an idea: instead of showing up at her home unannounced, why don't you invite her to listen to your music where you normally play it? I can imagine that the typical girl might be much more comfortable with that - it doesn't force anything on her and it removes the possible perception of stalkerishness that you want to avoid.

[ghost69]

i always thought you had to hold a boombox over your head playing peter gabriel? is this not the way anymore?

 

i think this type of stuff is creepy, and i'm a guy.