PittItaliano Posted March 17, 2007 Share Posted March 17, 2007 This thread is more for me to get everything out than to ask for advice. I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now. I love him more than anything, we've been through a lot with each other. He's loving, supportive, understanding, and accepts me for the person I am, he doesn't want me to change anything about myself. We have our arguments, but for the most part, it's the most perfect relationship out there. We are "that couple", that relationship that our friends wish they had. Which is why I don't understand what's wrong with me. Recently my ex and I have come into contact through a group that was started out of a tradgedy that happened in our circle of friends over three years ago. It's been four and 1/2 years since my ex and I dated, but it was a long relationship. The organization we are in is something we both care a great deal about, and neither one of us is willing to stop participating in it just to avoid the other one. The problem is, my ex and I didn't have a bad break up. We remained friends for a while after our break up and just got out of touch. Now that he's in my life again I'm wondering about my current relationship. Whether it's what I want or not. I don't understand these doubts. The only solution I can think of is to stop everything that is causing me to see my ex. But even if I do that, is that really fair to my current boyfriend? If I have doubts about us is it fair to act like everything is really okay. I still love him, I feel so guilty for feeling this way because I do love him. I'm just at a loss. Link to comment
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