pufferfish Posted March 19, 2007 Author Share Posted March 19, 2007 He is controlling it. He is a brave, commendable person, he is honest and upfront. I think perhaps you may be overthinking this a bit... a bit out of context. Thanks for your thoughts. That's what I'm so worried about- that I'm making a mountain out of a mole hill. He definitely IS brave and commendable, and that's part of why I adore him so much...he has come a long way since his childhood, and has emerged from that experience a very kind and level-headed person. But after reading what other people have posted in this thread, I'm worried that there's a side of him I haven't seen yet. I can't even picture him getting angry, much less in a violent way. It scares me that the easy-going guy I've gotten to know might snap in the future. If I make him seriously angry one day, is he going to feel like punching me? He said he had it "in control... somewhat," not completely. Right now I am staying with him- we really have a great thing going, and I completely adore him. If the temper thing turns out to not be a problem, I could see myself marrying him one day. However, I'm also going to take note of things that seem "off." If Mr. Hyde emerges, I'm out of there. I don't want to wait until I get hurt (or, looking to the future, our children get hurt). Link to comment
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