freeindeed Posted March 16, 2007 Share Posted March 16, 2007 Hi everyone. Last night, I was with my bf at a place we all hang out. Sometime during the night, his ex showed up with some of her girlfriends and was social with all the people there, which is normal. I'm not threatened by her at all, so I didn't mind and we stuck around and I was having a great time. My boyfriend uttered a couple things under his breath about her, but I didn't think much of it. But at one point of the night, she started talking to a girl that was my boyfriends friend for many years (even before they dated), and he got sooo uncontrollably pissed off. He started pacing and saying that he wanted to confront her, and the cuss words were spitting out left and right. He told everyone that was around us about what an f-ing B she was and how she has no right to try to continue to invade his life like that. I pulled him away and said let's go... he was really going to confront her and make a scene. When we left he called her and cussed her out. Honestly, I felt the whole thing was immature on my bf's part. She's a normal human, she's allowed to talk to whomever she wants. But I also understand that this was his first love, and it really does feel like sometimes she's just trying to invade his life....i.e. shows up places where he is, without reason to. The whole thing is a little weird to me because from what I've heard, she broke up with him (this is also what my bf says), so why is she still around? Personally, whenever I've broken up with a guy, I try to be considerate and not really "pop up" at places he's going to be....but that's just me. The thing that's kinda bugging me is why he gets soooo upset about stuff like that. Is that a sign that he hasn't let go of that relationship? Link to comment
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