ajaxajax Posted March 16, 2007 Share Posted March 16, 2007 Ladies and gentlemen I've had a discussion with my sister and brother about a lot of people thinking it's ok for a man to sleep around, but not for a woman to do the same. Then, as I was thinking about it....SOMETHING HIT ME! I might finally understand why society REALLY has this sexual double standard - even though I personally don't think it's ok for any of my sisters to sleep around. There are 2 reasons: 1. While woman can "fall in love" with man, man can "fall in love" with woman just as easily. In this regard, when having women, men naturally have competitors. They still all want the same prize - women (not just for sex, but for companionship, tender hand touches, laughter etc). So, each man tends to "hate" each and every rival male and feels disgusted against each woman who falls for that competitor and becomes "dominated" by, in particular HIS physical strength, HIS penetrative genital designed to violate the female target and, according to the man, HIS "very filthy, disgusting" semen! After all, no man wants to ever know how a woman receives another man's "white trash" - or be anywhere near it unless he's gay or bisexual 2. Men do become horny, but a lot more so than women - a lot due to testosterone being more in the blood. It's generally seen that men move in mostly because of physiology (of which not a lot can be done to eliminate - but can be controlled through eg proper companionship with a woman). Women do love sex, women do appreciate sex - and that doesn't make them (otherwise people will ask - um...what's a baby?). But, men feel that women sleeping around and having themselves being other men's "white trash" containers is not acceptable due to their major influence being not physiology - but UNACCEPTABLE CONSCIENTIOUS CHOICE! I know that what I've said may be controversial and probably offensive by some women, but I just want you to know this too. I may be male but I'm trying to never tend to want to sleep around for the sake of how women see me and other men. And it gets SOOO hard when he stays single. As for the Q of why men sleep around behind their lovers' backs, it's either because their relationships are not up to expectations and/or these men don't appreciate their companionship enough. I want to know what you, men and women, think about all this. Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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