Hayles Posted March 16, 2007 Share Posted March 16, 2007 I spoke with my very distraught best friend last night on the phone, through her blubbers she told me that her husband of 7 years had confessed to 'cheating' with a woman at work. Now, as she went into detail, it seems that he has been spending time with this woman, lunch breaks etc. and they have kissed - hence his need to confess. My best friend is heart broken, and she said something to me that I would never have throught about otherwise, "the thing is, they only kissed, but somehow I think that is worse - it's more about the emotional connection that needing an itch scratched". I was a little confused at first, but then she said this "Men sometimes get hookers so they can have sex, they sometimes have one night stands, they don't just kiss random girls without feeling something for them - this is not about sex, this is about the possibility of me actually losing my husband to this woman" Wow!!! I pondered on that for a while - what do you guys think? I didn't even really know what to say to her - I'm sure either way she'd have reacted the same way.... any advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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