ImThatGirl Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 As someone who works in a Museum, this made my day! Dan on Long Island One of our favorite places - that's for sure! I can't wait until they are old enough so we can go to other museums! Link to comment
Wotgorilla Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Awesome! *big grin* Dan on Long Island, working at his museum as we speak (type) Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 Is it possible to just pity this girl? I'm not sure you have much to worry about. Maybe so. I think that's the approach I may take. You know what bothers me the most? It is so clear that she needs attn from a guy - she blatantly puts it out there on everyone's myspace when she gets attn from any guy. But - I do deserve respect. And although I can accept alot of things, I can't stand being disrespected in front of my friends. And.... I'm pretty sure that if he goes out and she is around, there will be plenty of pictures strewn around. (She's picture fanatic / kinda like myself - always camera in hand.) And guess who's going to look like the fool? Of course I can look at her and think Hmmp! He's my boyfriend, go ahead and brag that you had an evening of fun where he was at with the guys. But my friends and family, look at it from the outside and thing "wow - what's she doing with this guy? And why would he have a picture taken with these girls all around him?" Link to comment
TheFoglifter Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Well, the guaranteed path to failure is to try and please everyone all of the time. If you focus on pleasing yourself, you will have more success. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 Yes it is very well said, Fog, Thank you! I'm pretty cool about it now after having talked it out - here. I think. But it does go against everything that I requested when deciphering whether our relationship was worth trying again. And that bites. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I completely agree with you on it being unacceptable. Stand your ground. If he has nothing to hide then he shouldn't mind you going along. I don't really know what I'd do if my b/f said "No, you can't go because they're going." I'd be furious! You're too good for that girl. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Is it possible to just pity this girl? I'm not sure you have much to worry about. I don't think she really has anything to "worry" about, but its the whole RESPECT thing. Link to comment
bigheart09 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 ITG, Does he really not want you to go out with this group of friends or just this night? Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 There's not even a set date yet. lol So - this group of friends specifically. Link to comment
bigheart09 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 And you have only met them once, and he says you dont get along with them? I find it difficult to believe that you dont get along with anyone!! Link to comment
Wotgorilla Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Absolutely, who could not get along with you! Anyone who takes their kid to a Museum is alright in my book! Seriously, r-e-s-p-e-c-t............ Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 And you have only met them once, and he says you dont get along with them? I find it difficult to believe that you dont get along with anyone!! Well.... S was with him the night I ran into him 8 months ago. She actually sat at our table while we discussed dating. I was friendly to her as well. J gave me a hardtime about moving to the town I moved to (it's upscale.) And also said he figured I probably thought I was too good to date him and that I turned my nose up at him. I took a consensus at the table (mind you after a few drinks,) and most of the people (including my sister and cousin) at the table said "yep - you come accross as stuck up." Anyhow - further discussion with her was her saying "I don't care if people think I'm stuck up" and me saying "I can't believe people think I'm stuck up!" really don't like the thought of anyone thinking I'm unapproachable.) Anyhow, he told me they were only friends (which they've never been a couple.) With the way she acts, I'm sure she didn't like me starting at that point. And the guy, P. I have been introduced to him, twice. And I was very friendly to him. But he kinda gave me the cold shoulder. I don't really have ANY enemies. Or people that can't stand me. (that I'm aware of besides her maybe.) I really try to get along with everyone! My daughters step-mom and I are close friends for goodness sakes! (Just thought of one other person and that would be my son's dad's gf. She's really mean to me too.) We've overcome the odds of that.... But I'm not allowed to be around this girl because we don't get along? Link to comment
bigheart09 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 ITG, You and I put up with a lot of crap for love. We deserve medals! BH Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 ITG, You and I put up with a lot of crap for love. We deserve medals! BH Now if they could just figure that out, BH! Link to comment
Wotgorilla Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 You sure are above this crowd, from the sounds of it..... Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 I don't think she really has anything to "worry" about, but its the whole RESPECT thing. Exactly! Thank you, Girl! How ya doing? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 i am above all of my friends. i think that all the time. turns out i'm always wrong. whoever believes this is an idiot and will end up a hermit. amt is a hottie huh i'mthatgirl? Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 I don't think Dan meant it that way. I certainly don't feel like I am "above" this group or any other group for that matter! However, we definitely have different styles of lives. I for one am very family oriented and focused. I rarely go out for a drink and if I do, it's with my family (sister/sometimes parents.) I have enough going on in my life with work and my children that I don't have time to create drama for others. This other group.... Well they do hold jobs (as I do,) but they are all about partying on the weekend / counting down the days until they get to party on the weekend. I think maybe they need to find better hobbies. (oops did I say that?) Seems to me that he wouldn't necessarily want to affiliate with them or their lifestyle either since he has a girlfriend and a baby.... (not my baby of course!) And yep - Course AMT is a hottie, Ghost. (you're funny!) She knows that. But more than anything, she's a great girl! Sweet, intelligent, compassionate, friendly! Link to comment
Wotgorilla Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I meant you are better in a good way, like you deserve better, sorry for the mix-up. Dan on LI. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 I meant you are better in a good way, like you deserve better, sorry for the mix-up. Dan on LI. Dantract - - - - You don't know Ghosts humor yet, do you? Ghost! I understood what ya meant! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 i know about deserving better. but if you put yourself above your friends, they will figure out how you really feel about them. that is why you need great friends that you consider all equal. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 AW! You truly just made me smile Thanks girl! I think the same of you! I'm doing good.....better. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 i am above all of my friends. i think that all the time. turns out i'm always wrong. whoever believes this is an idiot and will end up a hermit. amt is a hottie huh i'mthatgirl? ghost, you're a sweetie Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 no problem cutie. keep your friends close. i don't care about the enemies part of that saying. but your friends should be people that will stick with you through it all no matter what. i have maybe 3 friends that are like that. the rest are friends, but i could see them not helping out when they don't want to. Link to comment
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