bdwiii Posted March 15, 2007 Share Posted March 15, 2007 I need some advice. Maybe I really don't, because I know what my heart, my mind, and instinct is telling me, but it's hard to do when you're emotionally involved, but maybe I just shouldn't be anymore. I'm the guy that posted on here a few months back, right around Thanksgiving and Christmas, about a "girlfriend" lying and cheating on me at that time, and my having to find out by talking to the guys she was sleeping with. She later wound up in jail for a pv, and then was trying to call me and I refused to take her calls because of what she had done to me and how she had totally lied and betrayed me. Some time had passed, and I was just going to leave it alone and be done with her, but I had to write and get all of this off my chest, and so I wrote her a long letter explaining everything about how I felt, why, and that I knew what she had done. She responded with a phone call while out on work release, and saying that she was sorry, and would I want to try again? Like a fool, I said, Yeah, if you can promise me that it'll never happen again. Well, at first, when I'd go to see her on her luch and stuff, I would hold her hand, kiss her and tell her I loved her, and she would say it back to me, but that only lasted three days or so. That lasted all of three days, and now when I see her, she only asks for money, hardly speaks to me at all, and always seems miserable and not wanting to talk at all. I tell her I love her, and she doesn't respond. Now, just today, when I went to pick her up from work, and take her back to jail, she says, "you don't have to come at lunch, cause I'm havin lunch with "mark" a guy that work here with me. But you can come in the evening to pick me up" Now someone please tell me, am I wrong in wanting to just tell her this is going nowhere and I want out, and that I'm just going to leave her for "mark" or whoever, and let someone else give her rides and money? Cause that's where I'm at. When we're together anymore, it doesn't even feel like a close friendship, much less anything resembling a relationship of any kind. I need advice and help. Yeah, I know, I do need help, I need to have my freakin head examined. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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