seeking help 10+ years later

[zabs]

i was abused by my coach for almost 2 years when i was 13/14. its been over 10 years and i haven't gotten any professional help at any point. on one hand i feel like i'm doing pretty ok but i still wonder if i could be doing just that much better. i wouldn't even know where to start-which is ridiculous since i'm 'all grown up' now and should have a bit more of a clue.

involving my parents is not an option and i don't want to tell my friends because i wouldn't know a-how to tell them and b-how i would deal with them knowing/reacting to it. last boyfriend i tried to share this with told me to that it had happened to practically everyone and that i should suck it up. not very helpful and he is an * * * but i'd be lying if i said that line doesn't still linger...

any advice?

[musicguy]

you can still go to therapy, only if you want to, it wouldn't hurt to go.

[Jetta]

You really should report this coach to save others from having this happen. Go to the Police to see what they can do if anything. Go to the school to see what they will do. Get him reported.