amystar Posted March 15, 2007 Share Posted March 15, 2007 Hi everyone, This is just kind of a random post. My bf and I have been together for 2.5 years. When we're out in public, with friends, or at school, he completely stays away from me. I mean he doesn't like to hold hands, put his arm around me, absoloutely nothing! I'm lucky to get a smile from him where there are other people around. When people find out we're dating, their reactions are usually...."what? no way...you guys don't look like your dating." Guys have even asked me out right in front of him........then they start apologizing when I tell them he's my boyfriend. When we're alone though, he acts completely different. He's very affectionate and loving. He used to act more affectionate in public when we first started dating. When I asked him why he stoped, he said..."I don't have to do that anymore, you know I love you know and it's not really me to do that". Sometimes I feel completely ignored by him when we're with other people, it makes me feel kind of hurt sometimes. I was just wondering if anybody else has a partner like this or if there is a way to get them to pay a little attention....... I mean I don't want to make out in public or anything.....but just an arm around me every once in a while would be nice. I love him and accept him for who he is, I guess I get a little insecure about this. Thanks for reading. Link to comment
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