confused82 Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 Okay so yet another question about my recent break up. So My partner and I have no contact except for figuring out our financial obligations. I know I have to move on and for right now I really feel like I do not want to hear about her and her day to day stuff. The deal is, we have a lot of mutaul friends who I am hanging out with right now and I understand they are probably going to see or talk to her and I do not have a problem with that but I have asked them if they run into her on a regular basis I DO NOT NEED TO KNOW ABOUT IT. we both live in a very small town and I am sure I will run into her but I have asked my friends if they run into her at the mall or something of the sort there is NO reason I need to know. Now I do not want them to lie to me or keep it from me if they hang out with her but I also dont need to know all the details. I feel like until my heart is healed I do not want to know her day to day business it only hurts me more. So my question to you guys, is this the wrong way to deal with it and should I not ask that of my friends? I guess the way I look at it is, if one of them runs into her at a resturant why would they tell me???? unless she is with someone else or talking all about me there is no reason for them to tell me. I just makes me think about her THAT MUCH MORE. does this make sense???? Link to comment
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