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When they wink at you,what exactly are they saying?

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I mean I know it's a sign of flirting, but it always perplexes me whenever a guy does this with me. Like today at the mall, I was at the food court with my brother and this very cute guy was staring at me, we held eye contact for like 6 seconds. So after staring for awhile he winks at me. I start to laugh and smile back at him,he smiles back at me. Nothing happens & he keeps staring until I leave his sight.

 

This has happened to me numerous times, a guy may stare and wink but he never approaches me or say anything. When someone winks are they saying.. yeah I like what I see but I don't want to talk to you? Or do they want me to approach them? I don't get what am I suppose to do in these situations. I really was interested in getting to know the guy, but I thought he would come and sit next to me instead. Instead all he did was sit and stare at me. What exactly does a wink indicate as far as flirting?

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Leonhart Community Regular

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I get winked at all the time, I cant stand it.

Its sleazy.

 

IMO, its a "I wanna hump you" action.

Its ok if you know them or if you are joking with them or something, but the wink that is an obvious come-on is vile.

 

Couldn't a smile be taken the same way?

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EvaGina Mentor

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ohhh no not me! I love winking. It always gets my attention. I think it's sexy. I don't really take it to mean anything except that he thinks you're cute. If he wanted me, he'd approach me and talk to me.

 

the people who wink at your mustnt be the same kind who wink at me.

with me its normally old men

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applepie Community Regular

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the people who wink at your mustnt be the same kind who wink at me.

with me its normally old men

 

haha...I get the old men too, but I try not to think about that. It disturbs me. When it's a younger guy within a few years of my age, I take it as a compliment.

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Leonhart Community Regular

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I've had older ladies flirt with me and hit on me. I'd say it creeps me out, but I just think of it as them being twice my age, so it's just harmless fun. (Although maybe they don't feel that way.) I've even had them grab my rear and so on. I just laughed it off... maybe I should've been mad about it now. *Frowny face* lol

 

Ehh, some attention is better than none at all. Basically, when it comes to middle-aged and elderly women, and attractive (but gay) men, as well as younger (but unattractive - at least, in my sight) women, I've got plenty of interested candidates! lmao Eseentially everyone, BUT the ones I find attractive! lol

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Skylab Newbie

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LOL I'm only 20! I've been winked at numerous times and it drives me crazy.. I mean what exactly are they saying when they wink?

 

 

"Man, you are hot! If I were more confident, I would approach you but all I can muster is this stupid wink"

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Leonidas44 Newbie

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Winking is great, but only when used at the right time. I would never wink at a girl I didn't know (it creeps women out, and for good reason), but I wink at girls that I know all the time. Example: I like a girl, we make eye contact in class, I give wink, mild wave, and friendly smile. I dunno, it has always gotten a good response for me (maybe 75% smile, wink, wave back success rate). But, I wouldnt NEVER do it unless a girl already me in some way. Usually, that means she knows I'm funny and harmlessly flirtatious.

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