In Love with a Girl who is Taken

[bigheartdude]

How does it feel to know that the girl you fell in love head over heels is already dating someone else. If I got some hints that she likes me, should I pursue her further or is it like opening a can of worms. The feeling is unrelenting and the pain is bitter sweet. My heart races when I see her. Why does it happen that the forbidden fruit is the most desirable. Are all the good girls always taken before I meet them. I am talking about the girl I met in the bus. (see previous post). It's not a crush.

[Shy_Guy]

If you know for a fact that she's already actively involved with someone else the right thing to do is to leave her alone. Unless you already know her at some sort of personal level, I'd just keep your distance. If you converse at all, you might just EXTREMELY casually discuss things that you two mutually appreciate, but nothing beyond that. Stay friendly with her, but I really think it would be unfair for you to insinuate yourself unsolicited into her life.

 

Good Luck.