Help! Ex just called me..

[mohair27]

My ex called my house a little while ago, the phone rang and I picked up but after I said hello a couple of times she hung up on me, I don't know what to make of this. She may have been trying to get ahold of my sister since they are room mates at college, but she would have called her cell. Its been about 7 months since she broke up with me and we haven't had any contact since our 6 month anniversary when she dumped me. What do I make of this?

[PRSOV]

I'd say try its easier to get yourself caught up in this as all the feelings come swelling back faster than a tsunami huh?

 

My advice is to forget about it unless she calls you again... She may dialed the wrong number afterall right?

[shikashika]

call her back and see what she wanted... better than playing this "No Contact game" IMO afterall she called YOU

[cristal]

Do not call her. Let her call you back and express the reason for her call.

[shikashika]

you asked ..."What do I make of this?

 

No one on here can tell you that but her.... if you want an answer you'll need to ask.. I and a million other enotaloners can speculate what she wanted or why she called and hung up.. but its only speculation.

 

Call her.

[PRSOV]

If she had something to say she would have said it when she first called rather than hang up. If it was really worth something she would have called back surely if she didn't intend to hang up in the first place.

 

Don't b/s yourself with this stuff, it only holds you back.

[cristal]

Do not take the initiative and call someone who presumbly may have dumped you 7 months ago. You are not even sure that she was calling to speak with you.

 

The onus rests on her to resurrect any type of relationship, if any.

[mohair27]

Well I'm not going to call back, I'll see what happens if she calls again. I did enough calling her after she broke up with me. Maybe she's realizing something now.

[PRSOV]

Good decision.

 

Unfortunately I wasn't as smart as you a few weeks ago. Take it from me, if she has something to say your phone will ring again.

[mohair27]

Well for the past 6 months my life has been a living hell, and probably like a lot of enotaloners you wait and wait and wait for that ex to call you, today has not been a good day for me, a lot of emotions and uncertainty as to why she called. But I was at that point where I was getting over her and now it has just started again

[PRSOV]

I understand completely.

 

I know there is someone on this weboard that has the saying in their signature that sums it up completely "If your going through hell, keep going".

 

You've hit a pothole along the way, and that's ok. Just don't lose focus over what you have done in the last few months.