wyxi Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 Hi! I'm new! I've been in an online relationship for 2 years.... Yes 2 years! He is from the same country that I am from, but he moved to a job in USA 4 years ago. We met online 2 years ago... none of us was looking for a relationship. It really just happened. We did all the normal things online couples do, chat 4 - 6 hourse a day, webcam, called at night, talked for hours and hours. He is the more clingy one, needs attention all the time, which is draining sometimes, but I coped. There is no need for me not to trust him, there are no other woman in his life... I know that, because first of all the amount of time we spend together makes it impossible for him to have anyone else! He is ALWAYS available when I contact him. We are in contact with each other right through the day, I have his landline numbers for work and home, and I've spoken to his sister and mom a few times as well. We have send each other packages through snailmail etc..... I have more than 150 photo's of him that was taken on different occasions. I've seen him sleeping (webcam in his bedroom) webcam is on 24/7, so I really know exactly what this guy looks like! We really share everything! Sounds cool hey? But... He doesn't want to meet...His mom is still in the country where I am in, his sister is in USA with him. He is coming for the second time since our relationship started 2 years ago to visit his mom. He doesn't want to see me. He says: He is clingy now, he misses me now, he is not always coping well with the distance, and meeting me is just going to make it worse. He says he will not be able to let me go. Well he also says he cannot stay in this online type relationship for ever, but he will meet me, when he knows time is right for one of us to move to the other one. I cannot move right now, because of other stuff, and he still has a contract until 2009. Does it makes sense to anyone?????? Anyone?? Look, I love this guy (whether you can fall in love with a person online is not the issue right now) I love him, do you think this could be a commitment phobic? Link to comment
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