Will NC bring her back?

[InsertNameHere]

My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me a month ago for reasons I still am not sure of.. It is not another guy, but she was feeling depressed and said she needed to work on herself. However, she calls me at least once every few days, and I always pick up (like a fool) because I think she will want to take me back, but its always the same * * * *, and I end up asking for her back and she always says she doesn't know. What can I do because it tears me up every time she calls and I do not get her back. She tells me how depressed she is, but I just feel I'm waiting for something that will not work..

[in_love]

stop asking her to come back for one. And if you cant handle talking with her DON'T talk with her.

 

There ain't much you can do but all I can say is it definitely gets better after time.

[InsertNameHere]

I know it makes sense not to talk to her, but every time I think she will ask for me back.. but she never does, and this same cycle repeats every week

[in_love]

every week.... dude!!!! Listen to me, I have just been pining for the last 4 MONTHS!!!!

 

Forget it, NC, move on... I am telling you the sooner you begin to not care about what she thinks, feels, or wants and start caring about YOU the quicker you begin to feel better and the most ironic thing is this...

 

...when you really give up and let go, I mean man when you REALLY have just had enough things start to happen... I have held on for 4 months, I just started to really let go man the other damn day and who has called? whats been happening? I got a date tomorrow night, the ex called last night asking all sorts of weird questions I may have another possible date (fingers crossed) with a very hot girl...

 

...I am sitting here in amazement!

 

Let go NOW and begin to care about no one else but yourself.

[InsertNameHere]

Ya, its just so much easier said then done. I wish there was an easy way out

[in_love]

if she starts warming up to the idea of "coming back to you" you will sense it

 

Just play it cool... NEVER ask about anything which you may not like to hear the answer to.

 

Trust me man, read MajorD's and SuperDaves posts and adhere to the advice given.

 

LET GO!

[in_love]

Ya, its just so much easier said then done. I wish there was an easy way out

 

Once you start NC, it is hard, you miss them, but it gets easier what makes it worse is holding onto hope!

 

I was hell for it and man it dragged on and on till eventually I just gave up, my body just gave up!

 

Do you really want to live in this state? honestly man, its you who will keep yourself here. No one else.

 

 

 

Just take care and get out and about and flirt with other girls. Do whatever you can to stop the thoughts and when they come just ride out whatever you must and do not do what I did and hold on for her coming back it will drive you insane.

[InsertNameHere]

Once you start NC, it is hard, you miss them, but it gets easier what makes it worse is holding onto hope!

 

I was hell for it and man it dragged on and on till eventually I just gave up, my body just gave up!

 

Do you really want to live in this state? honestly man, its you who will keep yourself here. No one else.

 

I think I am rapidly approaching that state.. I am so close to just giving up. * * * * hope.

[Siriana]

She's using you as emotional crutch because hope is a * * * * * (prostitute - sometimes I hate how it makes very important words disappear).

I am not shure if you have this expression in states but on my language it's used very often.

 

When you think twice about it, she's being a b**** - calling you when knowing you want her back, but has no intention getting back together- isn't she?