Phoenix_girl Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 OK....I am confused as to whats going on with my friendship with my best friend. We have known each other since we started university (almost 5 years now). He lives in Oshawa (im in Toronto) and doesn't have regular access to a car (from what he says) so we dont see each other that much. He used to always respond to emails and phone calls, but lately he doesnt. A while ago, I told him i had feelings for him (he had suspected it for a long time, etc, etc. So it wasnt out of the blue). He didnt really say no to a relationship, just a "not now" kind of thing. Anyway we walked away from it with no problems.....or so i thought. Shortly after this I decided i needed to give up MSN for a while for various reasons...we had a bit of tiff over this cause he thought i was going to send myself to social siberia and end up more depressed Lately I don't hear from him. He doesnt return calls. Or emails. The last i heard from him, was on feb 28 and he said hed been really busy, etc etc. Whenever i have brought up getting together he always says "soon", but never elborates. Whenever i suggest a time he finds something else to do. The last time i talked to him it was like a 2 min phone call and he said he was driving over to a friends house (slap in the face for me). I hear about all the stuff he does with his "real" friends, and he says he'll come visit me when he can kill two birds with one stone (in other words when he has something else to do in toronto). I perceive this to mean "you arent important enough to warrent a visit just to see you". He says he loves our friendship, but I'm starting to feel like he doesn't want to be my friend. I dont know if any of you have heard of or use Facebook, but he blocked me on there (dont ask how i know, its a long story) - now he did tell me he wasnt going to add me (something about it being another addiction to replace my addiction to MSN), but to me theres a big difference between just not adding someone and completely blocking them. Maybe I'm just blowing this out of proportion. I miss him, i miss our friendship. WHat should i do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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