female stimulation

[CelesteSeven]

So, I really didn't know how to word the topic for this one.

 

But my quesiton is this: what's up with men and enjoying sucking on the breasts or going down on their female partners?

 

I'm female (as you can see on your left). I've messed around with 3 guys (done everything except intercourse with them... still a virgin). And they were all down with going down. And 2/3 enjoyed the breast thing. My current bf is really big on the breast thing.

 

But breasts don't taste good... I'm assuming. And vaginas have odors and juices and other crazy thing. And the level to which my current bf enjoys both activities is astounding. Can anyone answer me what the huge attraction is? I know it's normal, I'm just wondering what the reasons are.

[quietgrl]

I know some men like being breast feed.

[Newo Ikkin]

CelesteSeven, I ask myself (and him) the EXACT same questions. Men work in weird ways.

[mikeca]

my ex tasted good in my opinion I loved going down on her...for hours

[millaj]

Your partners enjoy doing things that will please you. It's not about taste, it's about how you react, and most of the time reactions will turn them on. They cherish your body, and the beauty in itself is what is most important.

[GQstatus]

What is there NOT to enjoy? As long as she eats somewhat healthy and takes care of herself down thurr...it can taste very good. And it's not so much the taste as it is enjoying pleasing your partner. Nothing turns me on more than hearing her pleasure, feeling her squerm, and calling out my name!

 

As far as the breast thing, well, I dunno what to tell ya. Put a boobie in my mouth and I sleep like a baby

[CelesteSeven]

Put a boobie in my mouth and I sleep like a baby

 

I usually don't "laugh out loud" at things... I laugh in my head. But this one got me. Nice.

[GQstatus]

Haha. It's the truth.

 

They make good pillows too. Guys just like fidgeting with things, maybe that's why?

[darthpeladus]

I agree. May be down there is not as tasty as chocolate, but seeing and hearing her enjoying that is priceless. And about boobs, my girl is really sensitive in the nipples, so I also love to play with them to make her feel good.

But I have the oposite question: why there are girls that like going down on men, and even swallow the semen? Its the exact same thing...

[silky88]

a different perspective:

 

as a bisexual woman, i feel that i can add at least a bit of insight...

 

for me, going down on guys and girls is different anatomically, of course, but in abstract, it is very much the same. i like each because i like feeling my partner respond to the pleasure that they are feeling, and also i relish the signs of arousal -- super-hardness and pre-ejaculate in men and a perky clitoris and uber-wetness in women. in both cases, unless the person is dehydrated or dirty, the taste has been pleasurable to me. but then again, i m not at all squeamish about sex organs or juices or the whatnot. some people really are.

 

as for breasts, they're soft and squishy, sexy to look at and caress, and it's hot as hell to feel a nipple get hard in your mouth (not just females, either -- plenty of men have sensitive nipples).

 

also, think about it this way: mouths themselves don't usually taste like candy, but more like a watery version of the person you're kissing (unless they're chewing gum or just ate some pizza or something), and kissing is a total turn-on to most people. the tongue is a very erogenous area, and to apply it to anywhere that will bring both partners pleasure is a win-win situation.

[julsiebear]

I can't believe you're even asking this question!

I mean, do you ever go down on him? If so, why? What's the appeal? I'm sure you're not going to tell me it's the taste... So you do it because your partner enjoys it, right?

And that's exactly why your partner would want to do the same to you! Why the assumption that guys should only go down there because they inherently enjoy licking labia? I'm sure guys will agree with you, its not primarily about THEIR enjoyment, it's about yours! Sex is a compromise, that's what makes it fun! I really hope you've been enjoying these parts of it too, rather than focusing only on the pleasure of your partner.

Ai ya, it makes my head spin a little!

[GuitarHero]

It's all biology. A woman makes juices which have pheromones which greatly arouse men and give them a lot of pleasure. Plus most guys just love pleasing their woman and there is no bigger ego boost than knowing you can satisfy a woman!

[CelesteSeven]

I can't believe you're even asking this question!

 

Okay, JB, no need to try and make me feel stupid for asking this question: It's not very nice.

 

However, men and women are actually different down there. And going down on a penis isn't the same as a vagina. Initially, it's a lot jucier, probably smells a great deal more, and I'm sure some other factors as well.

 

To me, the vagina... eh. And maybe a large part of it is because I'm not sexually attracted to them, but they seem much more gross than a penis.

 

Maybe he just enjoys hearing me moan but he'll literally do this stuff for hours and not complain.

 

To answer your question JB, I'm not a jealous lover and I return the favors. I enjoy it, immensely, but again (as stated clearly above), men and women differ. I wouldn't want to go down on a vagina... and I'm not entirely sure it's because I'm not sexually attracted to women. To me, vagina? Kind of gross. I know that sounds like something a 6 year old say, but I was 6 14 years ago so.

 

Other than that, I've been accustomed to the phrase "there are no stupid questions". And especially on a forum where people mostly ask questions, I don't think it should come as a shock that someone is just wondering "what's the attraction to female anatomy?"

 

It is, after all, something we face of every second of every day. Men are loving women all the time. So why not ask why?

[highspeed]

Speaking on behalf of one who does that...

 

Our sensory organs are all right there. Men want to see, hear, smell, taste, and feel it(some or all of these). Our sense work best near our head. There just so happens to be a stimulation tool built in.We can also watch you get pleasured. This makes us want it more. Ever had something you really really wanted, and its right in front of you. The super foreplay!

[Locke2121]

There is something about a man being able to use fingers, lips, tongue and teeth and make a woman scream like a banshee.

 

And what makes you think it tastes bad? Men and women reacte differently to the same tastes, smells and textures. What may taste bad or weird to you is good to us.

 

Want an example? If you have hunter friend, as him or her for a bottle of Doe in Estrous. Take a wiff. About 90% of the women out there will gag, men will go "WOOOOO!" It may stink, but we'll even go back for another wiff.

[jimthzz]

So, your guy loves licking your pu$$y. You love how it feels. But you're kinda annoyed with him because he should not like how you taste because you think your genitals are gross?

 

I think you are living down some early lessons you received growing up reinforcing that sex is dirty, especially female sexuality.

 

What you ought to do is embrace your sexuality and just enjoy that you have a guy that loves you, loves giving you pleasure by licking your pu$$y.

 

Give up the idea that your genitals are gross. You have proof. Next time you climax with your guy's tongue on your clit, you'll have all the validation you need.

[julsiebear]

So, your guy loves licking your pu$$y. You love how it feels. But you're kinda annoyed with him because he should not like how you taste because you think your genitals are gross?

 

I think you are living down some early lessons you received growing up reinforcing that sex is dirty, especially female sexuality.

 

What you ought to do is embrace your sexuality and just enjoy that you have a guy that loves you, loves giving you pleasure by licking your pu$$y.

 

Give up the idea that your genitals are gross. You have proof. Next time you climax with your guy's tongue on your clit, you'll have all the validation you need.

 

Amen to that.

Sorry CelesteSeven, I did not intend to make you feel silly or stupid! I merely wanted to emphasize my initial reaction (ie. "Ack! This person thinks her genitals is gross! Something must be done!"), but jimthzz has expressed my thoughts much better than I could have.

[JimmerJammer]

Well I haven't had a lot of experience going down on a girl before, but I have heard stories. To put it as nastily as possible, "fillet-o-fish" comes to mind and this was no joke. Ya I'll agree that because of the nature of a vagina, a lot more has to be done to insure no infections occur (which still happens regardless) and why you'll encounter smellier ones from time to time. Its a part of life and personally I like sucking on boobs, it feels pretty neat and plus they feel so soft on my lips its quite arousing.

 

The whole going down on them thing I mainly do because I want to get them warmed up and to get them off, but I know that my experiences with it so far haven't left me disappointed as far as NOT being gross. To be honest there has been more than one occasion where it tastes really good and I could sit there and go at it for longer than it takes to get them off. Even though I will initially plan on doing it to get her all wet and wanting more I also know that I usually don't find it "gross" as you put it. I think that's a self-conscience barrier you will overcome if you plan on feeling good about it. Also keep it clean and u'll be fine .

[julsiebear]

Hey, I found this really neat link to Eve Ensler's play, "The Vagina Monologues."

 

This woman is hilarious. Check it out!