catren Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 So, we've been dumped and the weekend is here - how are you coping with it? I think weekends are harder. Link to comment
socal Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 I second that. It's friday night and it hurts more tonight. I'm trying to forget about my pain by hoping to shed light on other people's problems. Lame, but it's kinda working. It's either that or happy serum in a bottle and that's not good.......... Link to comment
catren Posted March 10, 2007 Author Share Posted March 10, 2007 lol...I hear you. I'm having a drink myself but will be very careful not to go over the line where I pick up that stupid phone. As bad as I feel now, I know I'd feel worse afterwards. Link to comment
JustaGirl31 Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 To prevent drunk dialing on a lonely weekend night - first thing is to stay away from the phone. The next thing I've been known to do - type an email in draft form to the person, saying what you want. Then I save the message (do not send!) and then re-read in the morning. And I'm always totally relieved I didn't send the message (or call!). Link to comment
catren Posted March 10, 2007 Author Share Posted March 10, 2007 Great suggestion JustaGirl. I'm starting to really want to call but I know that I can't. Link to comment
socal Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 i purposely lost my phone for the night. i keep re-reading text messages and then deleting them hoping to delete him off my phone but there's so many! then i realize there's no end to my phone storage so......... it's now somewhere between the wall and the couch. Link to comment
catren Posted March 10, 2007 Author Share Posted March 10, 2007 Man, this is ***king hard. Link to comment
socal Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 why are we ladies sitting in? let go out! lol Link to comment
HDD Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 i am having the toughest day of my break up so far. found out ex is seeing someone only after two months. dont know if this is a rebound or not but he sure talks to her A LOT and its killing me. i am trying not to think about it too much and get him off my head. i have a really bad headache and its going to be a long night. So, I am thinking about watching a movie tonight to keep my mind busy. socal, if you were in the same city as I am, we would have def gone out and had a blast!! Link to comment
catren Posted March 10, 2007 Author Share Posted March 10, 2007 I'm in Canada but could I join? Link to comment
bear12 Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 hey, i'm with you... at least you're not home studying for a test (yeah, i have a sat. morning test... * * *?!). clearly, i'm currently procrastinating.. but the worst part is that i'm about 99% sure he's got a new gf now and it's hard not to think about the fun things they're out doing together. that used to be me Link to comment
HDD Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 tell me about it (UGH)... cant wait to get over this and find someone new! it will take time... lots and lots of time. Link to comment
catren Posted March 10, 2007 Author Share Posted March 10, 2007 Thank God for this website - it's the only thing that's helping to keep me sane these days. There's a limit to how mch our friends want to listen to. Tonight is definitely harder than any other night this past week. (And, for the record, I do not say eh...lol) Link to comment
bear12 Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 HDD- sounds like we're in the same boat. it's not very fun. i take it you're still in contact with your ex? the way i found out about mine and his new gf was not very pleasant. maybe i'll tell you about it sometime. are you in northern or southern cali? Link to comment
socal Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 catern, of course you are welcome to join! HDD, i'm from so cal but temporarily in the midwest without knowing a soul in sight... well, except for the guy that broke it off because i'm eventually moving back to CA. argh Link to comment
catren Posted March 10, 2007 Author Share Posted March 10, 2007 I'm actually at the most eastern point in North America - so, about as far from California as you can get in N. A. Link to comment
bear12 Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 oh, oh, where are you in the midwest? i grew up in mn, but i'm in nor cal now. the midwest isn't that bad. give it a chance! Link to comment
catren Posted March 10, 2007 Author Share Posted March 10, 2007 It's 1:30am here - what time is it where you are? Link to comment
bear12 Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 it's 1:30?? that's so weird, i thought all time zones were by the hour.. it's almost 9:00 here on the west coast Link to comment
catren Posted March 10, 2007 Author Share Posted March 10, 2007 I'm in Newfoundland - St. John's. We have our own time zone - probably the only on the half hour. Link to comment
socal Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 maybe we can all meet in chicago? i'm in omaha, from so cal, moving to nor cal in sept....whew! Link to comment
catren Posted March 10, 2007 Author Share Posted March 10, 2007 Chicago - let's do it. Link to comment
bear12 Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 yes, chicago it is any okay, social, i'll give you that omaha is probably kind of boring maybe you could join some sort of recreational sport or take an art class or something to try to meet people? i realize that having been in college for four years and now grad school for three, i don't really know how to meet people outside of a school setting! Link to comment
socal Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 i'll race you to the nearest pub from the airport... Link to comment
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