confused_male_32 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 I just started dating this girl who is six months out of a relationship that lasted five years. Her last boyfriend was abusive and inconsiderate of her feelings and was more interested in "partying" than spend time with her even when she was ill and hospitalized. Eventually he dumped her. We eventually hit upon the critical topic: "will you go back to him if he decided to come back into your life?" she claims that she gave it some thought and decided that she would not take him back. She also holds her emotions back from me and she always asks me "Why do you like me? you are nice to me now, how do I know you will not change like him?" I have been patient with her. How do I make her see that I am not the same person!!!! Also, what bothers me is that she had to think about whether she wants her ex- back? Shouldn't it be a obvious decision? or have I misjudged this woman totally? Are there other women out there who would go back to an abusive ex- ? I don't know what to think now, it's really messing with my head. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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