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How long is too long to stay married?

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I've been married for 18 years.. always "taking care of everything".. I work hard, but not too many hours.. actually a dream job.. and I take care of a lot of things around the house... cleaning, laundry, dinner, grocery shopping, etc.. So my wife had an affair a couple of years ago... or I found out about it a couple of years ago.. It changed everything... It's not really about the affair anymore.. just the complete lack of feelings for the worman I married 18 years ago... arguing, etc.. I've had sex twice in 5 years... nothing left to lose.. the thing is.. my kid.. whom I'd die for.. are almost 18... I don't think I can stand it any longer though... even though I think I've almost come to the answer.. after two years.. I'm just looking for afirmation.. I feel like I have nothing left to loose.. other than the respect of my children.. which would hurt.. I appreciate any advice..

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