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NC Status: Day 13

 

I don't get it... Today has been unusually hard for me for some reason... I can't keep myself strong and motivated for whatever reason... I keep getting this eerie feeling like something big is going to happen really soon, and it is bothering my entire being because I cannot detect the nature of it... I've been trying several different things to get it off my mind, but it still sits there...

 

I don't claim to be some kind of psychic or anything out of the ordinary like that, but in the past every time I've had that feeling something big has happened a few days later... It's just this annoying feeling in the back of my mind...

 

I don't feel like I can trust it this time because of what I am going through now, but it still continues to haunt me. Anyone else ever experience a feeling like that? What do they mean??

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Have you been filling the day with things that will keep you productive and keep your mind off your ex? Have you practiced thought-stopping: once your ex pops into your mind, have something "prepared" to think about to replace the thought (something pleasant)? I these things will help.

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The problem I've faced is the lack of activities available to me at this time. I've tried computer games, work, and several mind-based tactics in order to defeat thoughts of her... While this works effectively, I still get the haunting feeling that something is going to happen... and soon... Really frustrating.

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I had that feeling with my first ex. I'm one of those who once I get a feeling it usually comes to be in one way or another. There might be changes on the horizen but don't confuse that with hope. That's what I've learned.....because though I was right about my feeling it wasn't in the way I had thought it would be.

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I had that feeling with my first ex. I'm one of those who once I get a feeling it usually comes to be in one way or another. There might be changes on the horizen but don't confuse that with hope. That's what I've learned.....because though I was right about my feeling it wasn't in the way I had thought it would be.

 

This is something different... I can't pinpoint if it's exactly good or bad. This is why it's shaken me up quite a bit... I just don't know what it is...

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I got a feeling like this once. Ate away at me all night, would not go away. I couldn't sleep, couldn't eat, didn't know what it was.

 

Next day I got a phone call, my ex was pregnant. Sha-bam, it went away though.

 

Well... I'm just going to hope that kind of surprise doesn't come my way...

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i felt like that too last week. for some reason my instincts were telling me that my ex was up to something. something didnt feel right. And lo behold, i found out he is seeing someone, not sure if its serious or not, but its another girl. My instincts were right. I couldnt sleep two nights ago, had the worst night ever and woke up with the worst headache. so, dont expect for anything good, expect the worst so you wont be disappointed or HURT!!

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