Sean Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 Ok, I've been dating Kay for awhile now, and I thought things were going great, and I tried to be the best boyfriend I can be, I mean I've given her everything she needs on an emotional level, and a physical level, and whatever other levels there are, but God. Anyways, Kay and I always tell each other that we love each other, and I believed that, but now I don't know what to believe. Ok, so she has this guy friend, who apparently is her best friend, and he does have a crush on her. Now this wasn't a problem before because he was dating another girl. However ever since they've broken up, it just seems like he wants to be with her. I talked about it with her tonight, and well while she did have a crush on him when he was with his ex (this was before me), but she moved on. Well he broke up with his ex, and now they're talking again, having a great time etc. However, I think things are getting too close for comfort. I mean he's acting like he loves her and is just waiting for us to break up so he can have Kay. Hell he even asked her out when we are together! I mean my God, this guy pratically just wants to date her, to love her and probably have sex with her. Of course I don't say anything because he makes Kay happy and I want her to be happy, and I don't want to be this poessive psychotic jealous guy. However, now I just think he's crossing the line, he's saying stuff like "I love you as a best friend" and "I'll be here for you, if you and Sean don't work out, which I hope doesn't happen." So I ask her if she still has feelings for him, and she does, and I asked her if anything separates me from Mike, and she says, not really. I mean jeez, this is the same woman who tells me that she loves me, doesn't want to lose me, wants to be with me always, wants to move in with me, wants me to meet her entire family. I mean jeez, and apparently the only reason I'm dating her is because I came first. I don't know, maybe I'm overreacting, maybe I do have a problem here, I really don't know what to think and what to do.... Quote Link to comment
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