annalise23 Posted March 3, 2007 Share Posted March 3, 2007 Hi I feel so I broke it off with my boyf on wednesday. Its a long story, but mainly we argue a lot and he has some issues from his past which makes him very argumentative. I really believed (and kind of still do) that this is the best thing to do. However since yesterday, I have been bombarded with texts messages (all saying wonderful thoughtful things) and finally last night i came home to flowers and a card where he poured himself out more. He has also bought a puppy, as he knew I really wanted one. So, as a result it has sent my head and heart on a rollercoaster!! Its so hard. How do you push someone away when they are doing this? I have to though, as the relationship was not good. It is now we are broken up he is saying all the right things. This cycle of breaking up and getting back is all we have done and it kills me more and moe each time. He wants one more chance. There have been a few chances now in 6 months. Surely enough is enough. As much as he does these nice things, how on earth can they change this man. Next week will be the same, argue fight break up. Its all i have known with him. I guess I just need reassurance its the right thing, to give in to the pain is too easy now. Im so if he was not doing all this effort now, i would be ok. Quote Link to comment
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