annalise23 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Hi everyone guess im just typing to clear my chest or something. I ended things with my boyfriend this morning, and have had a horribe day. We fight all the time (all the time!!) and it just started wearing me down. I have trust issues with him, as recently i have found him lying to me. I caught him talking to other girls on myspace (flirting mainly, although he gave his address out to one girl) its a long story how i found out, but i didnt break into his account or anything! then he lied to me about his ex, he had been phoning her and lying about it. anyway we worked through these issues, but it left a bad taste in my mouth. I suspected he lied to me about going out and wel over reacted by thinking he was lying. i apologized and explained that this is the first time since finding ot all the lies that i didnt trust him. He was not happy. said i was out of order for throwing the past in his face. This was the first time i had ever doubted him since the lies and i did apologize but also sasid that i wasnt some crazy person, it was a result of his actions. We had a huge row and he basicaly said he couldnt care less that i dont trust him as that is my problem. I feel this is not fair at all. If i had done something to make him not trust me, i would be ressuring. He said he wasnt going to kiss my * * *. I never asked him too. I believe you earn trust! All i wanted was for him to be kind and caring and understanding. Instead he went cold, and ended up leaving in the middle of the night. When i woke up he had left me a voicemail saying we needed a long break as he was so mad at me throwing the past in his face. At this point, i had had enough. i was so upset. I had 'thrown it in his face once' and i apologized. So i told him a break is no good and that a break up is now needed. It has been a long time coming, and although a little relieved i feel bad. He text me apologizing saying how stupid he had been. How he has had a tough life and he gets ver defensive really easily. Well i guess i just wanted some opinions. I spoke with my dad and he gave me some very good advice. This guy wont change. he is very argumentitive and i have never argued with someone so much in all my life!!! feel better already for writing this down! Quote Link to comment
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