Lady Bugg Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Hey guys. I know this is a subject that's been covered many times.... but recently the realization of how TRUE it is finally hit me. There is a 'Getting Back Together" section on this forum...with stories of people who want to know the magic formula of getting someone to take them back, or how to make it work out...etc etc etc. I have come to realize the BEST way to TRULY get over someone.... and who knows...MAYBE even get them back is to accept they are just NOT the right person for you. I know this sounds so trite...and overplayed but it makes sense. Think about it.....how many times have you tried to make a certain relationship work? Only to have it blow up in your face...or for the same issues to keep breaking you apart? Yet....rather than saying "hey...this is just TOO much work, maybe I need to accept it is not the right relationship for me"....we keep beating ourselves up and attempting to fit a square peg into a round hole. We are going against the grain....and what SHOULD feel good and right...feels horrible and forced. A GOOD, healthy relationship that is SUPPOSED to be...would never drain us. It would always make us happy, content and secure. Have you ever heard of a couple that has been married, and miserable.... only to be the best of friends once they were divorced? It is because they are FINALLY accepting that the relationship is NOT a good fit, and they are free to be who they are. That is how a relationship SHOULD be. So please...for your OWN sake STOP trying to force something that is NOT supposed to be. Let go......it is such a freeing feeling....you'll be amazed at how much lighter you'll feel. Just wanted to share that today. Have a great day!!! 1 Quote Link to comment
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