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First of all, the only reason why I said in my first post that she would probably lie about the number of people she has been with , is because MOST WOMAN LIE about that.

 

In fact, I know of a large number of females on this forum who DID lie to their Bf about their "number."

 

So that is why I might not believe her.

 

Anyway, I know she has been with others before me, and so have I, but I was just curious as to her "number."

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I gave oral sex to guys while I was university so I didn't have to have actual sex with them. The number is probably between 25 and 30. If that makes me a **** then so be it. I really don't care.

 

I wonder what a guy who had received oral sex from countless women would be described as?

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I gave oral sex to guys while I was university so I didn't have to have actual sex with them. The number is probably between 25 and 30. If that makes me a **** then so be it. I really don't care.

 

I wonder what a guy who had received oral sex from countless women would be described as?

 

 

why did you do oral so you didn't have to go all the way with them?

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I think oral sex is sometimes more intimate than regular sex. I have always wondered why so many college aged girls do that like its a hug or a handshake. I'm not complaining by any means, just never understood the logic behind it.

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I think the OP's point is that if she's been ****ing herself self around, she's more likely to be less commital and less faithful. If it was years ago he might need to consider blowing it off. If it was recent, these are valid concerns

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I felt in control of the situation. Something I wouldn't have felt had I gone all the way. I never let them ejeculate in my mouth and all I took off was my top. It was always on my terms and going all the way takes away the control and gives it to the guy and that makes me uncomfortable.

 

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21 to a friend. I haven't had sex in a year. I've made out with 2 guys in a year. And I haven't given a blowjob for a year either.

 

University for me was a lot about trying to lose my inhibitions, wanting to feel that I was attractive, wanting to feel in control and wanting to be a bit of a rebel. It wasn't just about sex or oral sex, it was also about drinking and smoking and getting streetwise and trying new things. If that causes a guy to judge the person that I am now then whatever. I don't want to associate myself with him anyway.

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Anyway, I know she has been with others before me, and so have I, but I was just curious as to her "number."

 

Another possibility...

 

What if the honest answer is she doesn't know her "number"?

 

I mean, it never struck me as a game where I'd be expected to keep score, so I never bothered counting and keeping track. Seein' as how I've had more than 2 decades of being sexually active, didn't get married til I was 38, and have the usual memory gaps that come with age, I really have no idea of a "number."

 

Much as I'd like to believe I am one-of-a-kind, I'm guessin' that I'm not the only person around here who can't produce an accurate "number" on demand.

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And again Grosse....they think YOU are the "**" because you are female...the guys recieving it can't help themselves because men are just pleasure oriented, opportunistic animals. They aren't accountable for themselves..they take what is offered. Only women are accountable. Works out nice for them doesn't it?

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I think the OP's point is that if she's been ****ing herself self around, she's more likely to be less commital and less faithful. If it was years ago he might need to consider blowing it off. If it was recent, these are valid concerns

 

 

 

Well, he waited EIGHT MONTHS into the relationship to ask. Gimme a break.

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Don't keep worrying with this. Either let it go (my recommendation) or ask her and risk making a woman who gave you 8 months of her life feel vulnerable and judged.

 

Whatever you do, do it now because I'm sure these thoughts are affecting your relationship unintentionally.

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Sure. He should go ahead and ask her...but as has been stated and RE stated..he says he will not believe her answer anyway...because he states women HERE lie about their numbers anyway...(whatever) So I am thinking he just needs to break up with her. It's better than name calling, judging and mistrust.

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