WithHimForeverX3 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Okay I love it when my boyfriend kisses me on the neck but he never does it. I mean we are both 15 and sometimes well get so into the whole makeout session I dont want to ruin the mood by telling him what I want. I mean plus its a total turn off for me. How can I get him to kiss me on the neck without asking or telling him to? Link to comment
kr356 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 do it to him, or pull his head and push it near your neck Link to comment
nadine_3110 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 I'm not really sure but you could try kissing him on the neck first, see how he likes it. Then, another time, when you're talking online or text message or on the phone, ask him if he liked it. Maybe he'll get the hint. If he doesn't, just flat out ask him to. Link to comment
RIPDIME Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 You cant. There is no magical way to make him 'kiss you on the neck'. If you really want that so bad than just ask him, it may ruin the mood but in all honesty that's your only option. Link to comment
WithHimForeverX3 Posted February 28, 2007 Author Share Posted February 28, 2007 I know for a fact that he likes it ALOT. I do it to him every now and then, but he never gets the hint t really do it to me. I mean what can I do? Link to comment
kr356 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 that's it nadine, it's hard to get a man to do something you want if you don't ask or tell him too.. he is a male, not a mind reader lol Link to comment
WithHimForeverX3 Posted February 28, 2007 Author Share Posted February 28, 2007 yea but I cant just totally turn the whole thing off by asking there has to be some other way. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Just raise your chin up to expose your throat and groan "oh god I love it when you kiss my neck" then moan a lot when hes doing it... positive reinforcement Link to comment
RIPDIME Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 yea but I cant just totally turn the whole thing off by asking there has to be some other way. Yes you can. If he isnt bright enough to take your signals than really what other choice do you have. Just before the makeout or during or whatever the hell just slip in 'I really like it when you kiss me on the neck, you should do it more' and that's about it. You might be turned off for a few seconds, but its a risk you should be willing to take. Link to comment
WithHimForeverX3 Posted February 28, 2007 Author Share Posted February 28, 2007 Maybe have him take an IQ test? HAHAHAHA Very funny. Link to comment
WithHimForeverX3 Posted February 28, 2007 Author Share Posted February 28, 2007 Yes you can. If he isnt bright enough to take your signals than really what other choice do you have. Just before the makeout or during or whatever the hell just slip in 'I really like it when you kiss me on the neck, you should do it more' and that's about it. You might be turned off for a few seconds, but its a risk you should be willing to take. I mean I would do something like that but hes a shy person and I think thats his problem Ive been dating him for almost 7 months and every now and then he gets shy with me and I think thats his problem. Link to comment
kr356 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 yea but I cant just totally turn the whole thing off by asking there has to be some other way. you can ask him way before you are into the making out, just say 'i wouldn't mind it if you kissed my neck more when we are making out' Just raise your chin up to expose your throat and groan "oh god I love it when you kiss my neck" then moan a lot when hes doing it... positive reinforcement or that would be perfect Link to comment
WithHimForeverX3 Posted February 28, 2007 Author Share Posted February 28, 2007 I know he knows i like it cause everytime he does it I start to breath heaving and groan. because of that he gets turned on and sometimes gets hard. Is that a reason why he might not do it? Link to comment
RIPDIME Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 I mean I would do something like that but hes a shy person and I think thats his problem Ive been dating him for almost 7 months and every now and then he gets shy with me and I think thats his problem. Don't worry you can trust me in the fact that I am shyer than your boyfriend here. Because hes shy however doesn't mean hes going to take the suggestion negatively in fact hes going to take it more positively since he is shy, thats just how shy people are. Anyways.. this could be your makeout session.. *random making out* *you kiss me on the neck, I love that...*. I think you see my point. Link to comment
kr356 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 I know he knows i like it cause everytime he does it I start to breath heaving and groan. because of that he gets turned on and sometimes gets hard. Is that a reason why he might not do it? he may not know how much you like it, and you are right it -may be- because he gets hard from the noises you make that he doesn't do it, but everyone is different and you need to speak to him about it.. ask him why he doesn't do it much, doesn't he realise how great it feels for you etc Link to comment
WithHimForeverX3 Posted March 2, 2007 Author Share Posted March 2, 2007 I know that a relationship is made from communication but there are some things that I just cant talk to him about and this is one of them. Link to comment
lifestream Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 If you can't talk to him about this then I really think you should start. This is peanuts compared to REAL relationship issues. Link to comment
Altruist Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 If you can't talk to him about this then I really think you should start. This is peanuts compared to REAL relationship issues. I agree. There is no need to be embarrassed about telling him what makes you feel good. If you extrapolate this into the future you might see yourself having to fake org**ms. Link to comment
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