what do i do??

[saradrew20]

any advice would be greatly appreciated right now..

my boyfriend of 2 and half years broke up with me 2 weeks ago..said we'd drifted apart. i begged him to give it another go but he wasn't interrested.. i love him so so much and would do anything to get him back!..im just a mess..im not eating, not sleeping and i think about him constantly. i cant loose this guy...he means more to me than life itself.. and i just dont know what to do. i need him so much!!

[TheFoglifter]

Think about what your relationship would be like if you nagged and forced him into getting back together. If that managed to work, you would have absolutely no power whatsoever in the relationship, and you'd be bending over backwards every time he showed the slightest irritation.

 

If he wants to be with you, he has to come back of his own free will. In time, you will be OK. Just absorb yourself in all the things you've always wanted to do, but never had time.