1coollady Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 hey all, just wanted to hear some opinions on this situation i'm in.. i had been with my guy for about 8 months or so and last week we had a long talk, he just wanted us to be less serious. this came out of nowhere.. things were so good with us, a week earlier he had told me that i'm his world, he doesn't ever want to lose me, etc. we are both closer to each other than we've ever been to someone... but last weekend he told me that although he still felt physically & emotionally attracted to me, he "didn't feel the same" (how confusing is that??) and doesn't want a serious relationship right now. he even admitted that he couldn't put into words why he didnt want this anymore. so for a week, we tried to be a less serious couple, no sex, etc. he still called me, asking me to hang out every day and texted me cute things. i went away on friday and saturday on a trip for one of my classes and he texted and called the whole time i was gone. this would have been fine except there was no physical anything, he would hug me and kiss me like i'm his grandma, and that's it. yesterday i was sick and he came over to make me breakfast. we watched tv in my bed and he stayed a good 12 inches away from me the whole time and hugged me goodbye. after the goodbye, i said "you dont even want to kiss me?" he said no, i closed the door. then i ran out to his car and said, "i'm done, you dont want to be with me" he said okay and hugged me for a little while. (there were a few more things said but nothing important... we had done enough talking the weekend before) and that was it. this happened to a friend of mine a few years ago, he broke up w/ his gf for about 2 weeks because he just got scared. he realized he was in love with her and told her this. theyre still together now. i don't want to get my hopes up, but do you think he'll come around? and in the meantime, i don't know whether we should contine hanging out (i'm his best friend and he said he wants me to still be a big part of his life) and talking, or go limited contact for a while. i know i can be his friend, i've done it with exes before, but i don't want him to forget how much better things are when we are a couple, rather than just friends. Quote Link to comment
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