Dave7777 Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Hi there is this girl at work who i really really like. But it is really hard to tell whether she is flirting back or being friendly. As far as i know she is in a serious relationship, but she seems to act differently with me than with other people. For example when i make fun of her, she always makes fun of me, yet when other people do it, she doesn't do anything. She is forever hitting me, and doing things to try and annoy me. Am i totally barking up the wrong tree here, where as in fact she probably hates me? Let me know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chet Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 It is hard to say, she might like you, or she might just like the attention. How much do you know about the serious relationship she is in? Joke around with her, tell her she should leave him for you, but do it as a tease and see how she responds. I know many women that don't consider a relationship serious unless the guy has put a ring on her finger... maybe she is that kind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J6hn Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Do you detect hostility or playfulness? It sort of doesn't matter whether she's flirting or not, if she's in a serious relationship DO NOT PURSUE. If she is being flirtacious, keep it clean. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave7777 Posted February 25, 2007 Author Share Posted February 25, 2007 I don't know much about the relationsip, other than they have been going out for over a year. There ius definie playfulness, i mean i can tell when someone is being hostile towards me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chet Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 What is the culture like where you work? Do people go out in groups after to hang out, get a beer, that kind of thing? If so, organize such an outing and ask her to join you all... it makes it safe for her. If that isn't an option, take her to lunch... lots of coworkers go to lunch together. If she says 'no thanks' then you have a pretty good hint without investing much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRedQueen Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 If she is in fact involved in a serious relationship, then yes, you are barking up the wrong tree. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 i tend to stay away from women that i know are taken. i think it's rude. i wouldn't want someone doing it to my girl. especially when i'm not around. it is possible that she has an attraction to you. you shouldn't be acting on this though if she does or not. ......................................................................................................................................................................................... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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