NEED HELP!!! Confused With "Ex" Please

[bob123]

Hi,

 

I am a senior in school, and my girlfriend and i just broke up. I am 17 and shes 16. She sais she is not sure what she wants in life, as far as guys go, and doesnt know what she is missing out on, and so on... Typical stuff that everyone goes through. I relaly need help, this happened a couple days ago, and i dont want to lose her. We went out for over a year, and yes i screwed up some things, as far as being pushy, so on... And we have talked about them. She sais nothing is permenant, and she is not closing any "doors". I have relized so much since we have broken up, on what i lost, and what i would change if we were back together. And she know that. Please help me! SHould i give it a month and try again? How can i make it look better on my part? I cant lose her. It might just go away, but i want my best chances. Please help.... Any tips? Suggestions? And as far as i go, i dont want another girlfriend right now. I really want t oplay this out for a little while, and hope things work out. Main question is, what is the best things i can do to better my chances? And get to relize things she missing? She cried a lot adn i mean lot, and i know she loves me.

 

Thank You

[Gunther]

well first off dont beg women hate that! not saying you will just telling you it would make things worse. My advice to you is simply give it maybe like two weeks to cool off, then call or talk to her in person. see were it goes from there, sometimes ppl just need some time to think and cool off before they say something they {and you} will regret. hope this helps

[bob123]

thanks...yeah i had problems with that...sorta... this was my first girl that i really cared about. im sure we need time to cool off...things got a little worse. do you have any other tips? or anybody else? On either...ways to improe our relationship. We are currently friends. But i cant stand being without her. We just sorta clicked from day one.

 

 

Thank You