savoie Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 im so frustrated right now. drinking wine with my best friend last night is not helping the mood today! the ex and i had a forced conversation last night because of a financial situation that needs to be resolved. he told me 3 weeks ago that he would have it taken care of by now - but it is still hanging. this is the last of the issues to be squared away between us so i am anxious to be done with it. i hate the communication about this stuff!!! one of our problems in the relationship was the way he put things off. he is doing it once again and, to avoid further delay, i am doing what he should be doing himself! classic enabler i am right now. but the reality is - if i leave it to him it will delay the filing of my taxes. he knows this and promises that he will sign off this week - after i have done the work i offered to do - i know my fault. it just sucks because the conversation went from business to how are you....how was your trip, how is your family, work, etc. i asked the same of him in return. he replied "work sucks and beyond insanely busy" "but i bought a new boat" and "i booked a trip to kona in may to visit friends (a married couple) and to go solo camping. he then went on to tell me his plans for that night and for the weekend - which included lots of fun and friends. i certainly got the impression that he is not dating anyone - but the conversation was painfully without feeling - on both our parts. we will be talking again early next week to wrap the financial deal up. i guess what bothers me the most is the fact that i don't sense that he misses me at all - not like i did a couple of weeks ago. it's weird because deep down i think that i know he does. he even joined my gym.........my Smilies membership is on hold though and it is close to his work. so trying not to read too far into that one! its a bummer - i really thought that he would continue to keep the door open between us. he seems really happy - although he said he isnt sleeping and is highly stressed - but things seem to be going well for him which i am happy for. argh - i hate this. wish i knew how he felt right now. time will tell i suppose - its still all very fresh and the bottom line is time is what it takes where our problem is concerned. jsut wish i had a crystal ball. Quote Link to comment
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