Sadie2 Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 After an intense one year relationship I finally broke up (for the 5th time) and stayed away from my ex. We had a very intense connection...the strongest I have felt yet. He wanted to get married and said I was the love of his life. But he did not treat me well. He was narcissistic, inconsiderate, invalidating and really manipulative. He did not want to break up. But the more he invalidated me the more depressed I became to the point where I felt like I had lost myself. Things ended really unpleasantly with us with me being really angry for the way he treated me for the last year. I mean I was pissed to the point that I told him never to get in touch. Well it's been 5 months and I recently saw pics of he and his new gf. She looks a lot like me. A lot. Same face structure, hair, eyebrow, eyes, skin color, race. I have asked friends and they are really surprised at how much she looks like me. What do I make of all this? It's been long enough now that I could see being a friend in the future. I still have strong feelings for him, really strong but I'd never be with him again. He was too hurtful and manipulative. But seeing pics of this new girl just pulls at my heart again...i feel sick about thinking of even dating anyone for a while because i can't get over someone so fast. But it's like he's replaced her with me. I feel upset, but why! Quote Link to comment
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