no number

[tom_bombodil]

Hello everyone,I’m trying to understand why a girl would seem to really like you but not want to give her number, this girl is the friend of a friend and we had met only once before quite a while ago and she was only here for the weekend but we talked and got on, we kissed on Friday night and on Saturday she approached me about the night before and wondered if I felt it was a mistake on my part, I told her not at all etc and kissed her again…that night we were in my friends house and we talked a lot and to the amusement of the others we sneaked to the “toilet” at the same times to kiss upstairs, it went no further than that,but now I’m thinking was it just a bit of fun and her telling me what I wanted to hear as she knew she was leaving the next day or does she want to keep the ball in her court and play hard to get until she visits again? which she insisted she would be doing. She lives about 3 hours away at the moment, thanks for any help.

[txblues]

i'm sortof in a similar predicament with a girl about 3 hours away also. only i have her number but haven't made it as far as kissing; definitely alot of flirting between us when we hungout, perhaps this had to do with the amount of drinks she had, couldn't quantify how much and how much it affects her flirting. she's called me up a few times. i wish i would hear back from her more often but she tells me to call her when i visit the city.

 

seems like its just a hangout and flirt type thing. maybe this is the way they want the relationship to progress at this point. i would say wait until you hangout again and let it develop from there, but in the meantime try to meet other people, have fun, date, etc...

 

its hard not to think about what could be if there isn't the barrier of distance or what if i called her up myself more often. but then this is wishful thinking for a relationship and girls can be in a the mode of single, flirting, but not looking for anything serious right off the bat.

[heloladies21]

Hang on dude, did you ask her for her number or did you expect her to just give it to you?

[tom_bombodil]

hey, thanks so far, i asked for her number the friday night but i'm not sure i asked very well and i don't remember her saying no, but just not saying anything so, i didn't ask again on saturday night. Its weird because she seemed very keen and said she'll be back again, she asked if i had a girlfriend about my family etc....everything was great just no number. I suppose i just see how things are the next time she's here.

[heloladies21]

If she didn't give me a yes or no, I would've asked again to clarify. Then you would've been in a much better position to know what the heck is going on.

 

But no worries, just remember this lesson for next time. Try again the next time you see her and in the meantime get out there and do your thing!

[ghost69]

don't get hung up on this girl. especially if she is so far away. if she did hear you ask for the number and she is into you as you describe, she should have been begging to give it to you.

 

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