rusloi Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 I wonder if anyone could shed some light on why i may have been dumped by gf of 2years. Here goes my tale of woe: Last september my girlfriend (who currently works 14hrs a week and is in her final year of uni) went to the docs with depression he then signed her off work. During this time we had a lot of fun and things were cool between us (we had been arguong a fair bit before). She then returned to work and things were still cool (she was on medication at this point)...So christmas comes and goes and she goes home for the new year and comes back in a horrible mood and hardly spoke to me. Within a week we had an argument over something so petty that she said we need to talk at which point a shouted that we didnt need to talk that the relationship was nt working (which i truly didnt mean) at that point she went mad and started gettin my stuff together and said she wanted me out. I calmed her down and she said maybe we shud be friends..i said fine...we went to bed and in the morning didnt discuss what happened until midday when she said we're better off being friends.... so i said fine went home and then at night got a msn saying she didnt want to lose me and wanted to work things out and that we should have a break for a week and write down where we went wrong and how to resolve it....this was fine and for the next two days we were texting how much we loved each other and missed each other (some break eh?) then almost over night she changed her mind and was COLD as ice and said she dont think it would work and that she hasnt the energy to make it work... so for the next couple of weeks we stayed in touch but it was a weird limbo period where nothing was said bout where we stood. Then bout 4 weeks ago she said that she just wants to be friends and that i dont think we should speak or see each other for a while. I was like fine said my peace how i think we should make it work but if her heart wasnt in it then fine...so i bounced. Within two days she was sending me msn messages and missed calls...which i genuinely had missed then by the weekend she got through to me and was screaming at me to get my stuff (cos it upset her to see it around her flat) and move on (which i was trying to do). So i played it cool and got my stuff - i noticed she left a photo frame without my picture in it in full few of me. Anyway so i emailed her saying i still care and worry cos basically she said she is no mental state to see me. Then i received and email basically apologisng for our two years where she thinks all she did was shout and argue with me. I explaied this was not true and for her to take care. Within 3 days she phoning me about something petty and we get talking on msn where she admits that she still loves me and misses me but that we should just have a clean break..now since then i have had one conversation with her (initiated by her) where i was just asking bout general stuff then mentioned i was goin out on friday..at this point the convo started goin on about her goin out and gettin wrecked and guys chatting her up (which she told to F*** Off) and each time i changed the conversation i.e hows uni?, workin hard?...her response goes back to "workin hard playing hard"...i think she wanted a reaction but i just said im glad ahes enjoying herself..... Now i have no contact now for 2 weeks and would like to meet her again (i do still love her) but is there any hope to get back with her...i just dont understand whats going on - she finished with me but has all the symptoms of the person whos been dumped. Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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