mr_echo Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 I'm on NC day 3 of an acromonious bust up and there's a question I have about it. If I remain NC and never contact my ex, could it be possible that she will interpret this as me having never loved her in the first place? I know she has her reasons for the split - one of which was that she wants her independence. She did commit to me a few months back and told me how much she loved me and that I was the centre of her world etc. etc. The thing is I always felt she was testing the relationship and kept moving the goalposts. This is all against the backdrop of her accepting free accommodation, money for stuff etc. Now she wants her own place etc. So did I fail in some dept.? Everyone tells me that she is a user and I should not want her back. Sorry for the muddled thinking it's early Is it possible to love someone one minute and hate them the next? We only had one argument at christmas (not even a really bad one but 2 bottles of wine were involved) and I think this was the turning point. Doesn't true love tend to forgive/forget? I'm so confused did I do too much, did I do too little etc. etc. I know NC is for me but will she just lose interest if I continue? Quote Link to comment
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