finalcloud13 Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 My gf dumped me. She said she wants to be friends. After doing everything I shouldn't have (trying to convince her to get back together), I did NC without telling her. Then my friend told me that my ex talked to him and that she was angry that I never talk to her anymore. So I broke my NC to tell her why I haven't been talking to her, then restarted the NC, this time with her knowing. She understood. But I see advice that says you have to show your ex how happy you are without them during NC, so that it will intrigue them and make them wonder about you. So my problem is, if I show that I'm happy, it means I'm acting like I'm over my ex, which means that I should be able to talk to her and be friends. So how will she miss me if we can regularly talk as friends? In other words, I can't do NC, because: -If I do NC and try to show that I'm happy, then she'll question why I'm still doing NC if I'm okay now. -If I do NC and not try to show anything, she'll think I'm not over her so I can't do the whole "show them how happy you are" thing. I want her back, but I have no plan. What should I do? Quote Link to comment
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