kate111 Posted February 17, 2007 Share Posted February 17, 2007 I feel angry that my ex asks others how I am in a way I find patronising. It's as if he expects that my life should fall apart without him in it. Personally I don't want to give him the benefit of knowing I care. Is this a stage of the healing process? Anyone else find this? Quote Link to comment
Jason1080 Posted February 17, 2007 Share Posted February 17, 2007 Im sorry if you posted this before, but: what happened between your ex? who broke it off? how long were you two together. Sorry if you already posted it before... Quote Link to comment
kate111 Posted February 17, 2007 Author Share Posted February 17, 2007 3 years. Lived together. He suddenly called it off and moved out because he couldn't commit. Quote Link to comment
Siriana Posted February 17, 2007 Share Posted February 17, 2007 Ah, I bet he asks because he would feel better knowing you're all sad, depressed and curled in a bed. If he heard you're moved on he would feel worse. Also I bet he's asking because he's feeling guilty. Ignoring is the the best you can do. It is annoying! Quote Link to comment
Jason1080 Posted February 17, 2007 Share Posted February 17, 2007 My guess is that he has found somebody else and wants to know whether you are depressed and sad or not. If your friends told him you were sad, then he will feel all too good, knowing that he has a back up if he messes up this one Tell those guys to tell him your happy and cant feel better. That'll show him Quote Link to comment
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