Should you apologize for your failings?

[MasterT]

Should it be considered an important part of trying to get back together, to apologize sincerely (in a calm fashion without begging), for your failings in a relationship?

[Lady Bugg]

I wouldn't neccessarily say to apologize....but accept accountability...definetely. It is a very mature and respectful thing to do..and shows the other party that you ARE resmorseful without you HAVING to beg. It is also a classy thing to do.

[heloladies21]

It won't impact the situation as for sure the things you are going to apologize for really had nothing to do with the break up.

 

You sound like a good guy,but it may be to a fault because typical "nice guys" have a hard time showing negative emotions like jealousy and possessiveness when it's necessary.

[sidehop]

I believe whenever you've done something wrong in a relationship should apologize right away & not blame or wait to be said unless there's a heated moment. At least the person will know that you're sincerely sorry whether or not two people get back together. It can mean a lot.

[Blsmith007]

I think the more important part of showing her is that you are willing to work and comprimise to make the relationship successful. I think that is a lot more valuble to show you are willing to give it all you got. Good luck and I hope this helps.

 

Brandon

[sadk]

I did. And I accepted responsibility well after I'd accepted it was over. I really don't know what it did for her, but I felt better.