newdad12345 Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 Hi all. Hopefully you can help. Here 's the situation....... My fiance and I have a 6 month old daughter. I am legally her father, but she carries the mother's last name. I just can not stand to be with the mother anymore, and I want out of this relationship so badly. However, I realize in doing so, that I put myself at risk to a very diminished role in my daughters life. My fiance has insisted many times that she wants to leave, and go back to her hometown (over 14hrs drive away). Then, 2 days later she loves me again. I can't take her bi polar feelings anymore. And, I also realize that most US courts would give her custody, as neither of us has any criminal or psychological record of being unfit. However, I am the only one with a job supporting everyone at the moment. I believe she is trying to get a job waitressing a few nights a week, but she insists that she will give no money toward bills...it all goes into her pocket. Please help. I really don't want her to take my daughter away from me and me pay her (child support) in doing so. I just can't swallow her taking my child and me paying her to do it after everything I have tried to give to this family. Thank you in advance. Quote Link to comment
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