good ideas anyone?

[Eagle]

Theres this girl I got a number for, and I called her and we talked for like 5 mins then I knew I was going to be silent, since I dont know here at all, so I made up sumthin like I had to go.. Im calling her tomorrow, but I have nothing to say, what are some things I could do to bring out a good convo for both me an her, I was thinking abou asking her out on a date to get to know each other, well a double date that way we'd both feel comfortable.

[Jeffrey2095]

Hello Eagle,

 

Well, good start man, congratulations!

 

I don't know... (wish I did...)

 

Maybe something very simple at first like coffee... A burger. something where you two will be able to spend some time alone... initial time, know what I mean?

 

Something where the "date" is simple so you can concentrate on getting to know each other... Conversation the best thing, you know...

 

Well... it's great to see someone jazzed around here and I wish you every luck and best wishes man.

 

And, a double date is sometimes good too... you are among friends, and your friends can often help things along for you.

 

 

Jeff

[run_little_rabbit]

Ask her about her family, what kind of music she likes, and movies. You know, the basics.

[Eagle]

Yeah, well I talked to my brother about going to the olive guarden and then to the movies afterwards, mayb I can see if she wants to go and be ablt to talk lol.. but, I gotta think of a way to start a convo with her tonight.

[Jeffrey2095]

That sounds like a terrific first date Eagle.

 

The Olive Garden looks so good I wish they had one nearby, and the movie, that will give you a nice topic to talk about and keep the ball rolling as far as conv.

 

Sounds like you're gonna have fun.

 

Jeff

[Eagle]

Thanks.. I hope it works out good..

[g1234567890h]

Conversation topics:

 

Music

Art

Movies

Books

School

Work

Family

Friends

Hobbies

Personal stories

Pets or animals

Children

 

How's that?

[lifestream]

Honestly you don't have to think to hard about the topic. If the girl is a conversationalist, many topics will work. If she's not, you'll know.

 

That's one thing I dislike finding out, that a girl can't relate topics to her life and is more boring than watching paint dry.

 

If you hit it off on one topic, just be perceptive and try to lean into another one. You'll run the gamut smoothly instead of jumping from topic to topic.

[LiL_MiSs_NeY]

well all the conversational subjects has pretty much been covered by g1234567890h. if you are more worried about what to talk about if you go on a date, maybe it would be a good idea to do something say a movie so that way afterwards you both would have something similar to talk about