elfscrap Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 I haven’t seen my husband for 3 weeks!!! I am so excited that he is finally coming home from working out of town, the day before Valentine’s Day!!! However, I just found out that he does not have plans of spending the day/night celebrating with me at home. His first day back will be spent driving (3 hours to and from) to visit his mother’s house for something that she does not need right now. I am very disappointed and hurt that he would choose her over me (especially this close to the romantic “day for lover’s”). Granted, she is sick and lonely and just transferred to a healthcare home. Yet, she has been there just as long as I have been alone here at home (with an emergency to boot) and I am lonely too. I feel for her, but at the same time, we have been having constant troubles with her. She is driving us both crazy. She is a drug/alchohol abuser that is manipulative and financially and emotionally draining. I don’t think that my husband should be supporting and giving into her “sob stories”, but he can’t seem to say no to her. My husband and I do have a 3 day weekend planned together – am I being selfish? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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