MM58904 Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 I'm afraid I won't be able to have sex! When my bf puts his finger inside of me, he can get up to his knuckle then it starts to hurt. Not screaming pain, but it hurts a little. Kinda uncomfortable. If his finger can't fit, how is his penis supposed to fit lol. What more can we do?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quietgrl Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 I'm afraid I won't be able to have sex! When my bf puts his finger inside of me, he can get up to his knuckle then it starts to hurt. Not screaming pain, but it hurts a little. Kinda uncomfortable. If his finger can't fit, how is his penis supposed to fit lol. What more can we do?? Are you relaxed enough when your boyfriend fingering you because when I'm reading your post.I'm feeling your fears. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HellFrost666 Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 That is normal. Your first time will hurt, as it does for most women. But eventually the pain ges away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MM58904 Posted February 13, 2007 Author Share Posted February 13, 2007 Yea, I try to stay relaxed as possible. Of course he does it when I'm arroused enough. It just feels weird. I know it hurts the first time, but doesn't it tear something? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 link removed you should go to this website and read about it. sex is painful for some women, more than just the "it will hurt the first few times you do it." you should read about it and see if this applies to you. You may need to talk to your doctor, or learn some relaxation techniques. you may be involuntarily tensing your PC muscles, which will make sex painful and/or impossible! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the yang to the worlds yin Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 Don't forget, some people are just naturally, "extra small" whole wise. For a long time my guy and I thought sex would be completely impossible, and it took a lot of patience, but it will work for you eventually, don't worry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MM58904 Posted February 14, 2007 Author Share Posted February 14, 2007 I am a small girl..I hate it lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the yang to the worlds yin Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 I am a small girl..I hate it lol. Don't worry, I am too. It makes it a pain in the behind for sex for a little while, I won't lie, but if your guys patient, and you understand that theres nothing wrong with you, then it'll all work out, don't worry Don't forget lots of lube. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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