Help!

[capblueberry]

Ok me and this girl have been talking for about 2 months now, we talk on the phone each day and ive asked her out twice, and she been "thinking" about it for about a month now, we've hung out on several occasions and have kissed many times, and even french kissed a few times.

 

but now it just seems like she wants me to leave her alone... * * *!

 

idk what she is thinking right now and its really stressing me out. someone give me some advice on what to do.

 

would someone that wasn't interested in dating me let it drag on for 2 months and go as far as to stick her tongue down my throat????!!!!

[robowarrior]

Just keep on pursuading her,eventually she will give in, and if not then at least you can say you did your best to try to make this all into a valid relationship.

[EvaGina]

I dont agree with Robowarrior.

If you keep chasing her, and she has decided that she doesnt like you like that, you will be deemed the "scary stalker" type.

She has thought about being your gf for a month? she doesnt want to be iwth you and shes too chicken to tell you

[confused25]

I think that if she really is interested in you, that she would've said "yes" to you already the first time you asked her out. If I were you I'd ask her again and if she still doesn't give you a definite answer then I'd say it's time to move on.

[capblueberry]

well she's 4 years older than me so i was giving it some extra time for her to think it over, but i mean she still calls me and what not, and i even went to her house last friday and we kissed then too...what the heck

[carbon]

If she is kissing you then I would think she's at least a little interested. Try asking if she has reasons for being hesitant. Perhaps she has been hurt in the past, or has family obligations, etc, etc.